PeopleWithMS Newsletter 08-19-07
PWMS
Chat Update:
Chat continues to grow at 1,000 visitors a week!
If you are newly arriving, or a returning friend from MS Watch, MS World, Jooly's Joint, or another chat, let folks know.
It's great to catch
up on what old friends have
been up to. At the same time, we have seen that the
room
become more in touch with helping the newbie to feel welcome.
We're
getting new chatters weekly and it's very rewarding to see everyone helping out the newcomers to chat.
Recent events dictate a restatement of certain facts
of life about the PeopleWithMS Chat.
Our
primary focus is
Multiple Sclerosis and our objective is support. Not just
boring
clinical information - support is under a big tent, with broad expanse
of fabric. So we have many rooms to cover the many topics
and
personal perspectives.
Remember -This
is your house as well as ours. We donate the chatroom,
and solicit no
outside sponsors:
We rely on our chatters to volunteer their
time
and effort to make this the best it can be. We keep a very
open
mind about our chat
rooms, recognizing that we are catering to a wide audience.
We really don't want to make rules about
what you think is relevant help. But we do expect some display of
common sense and respect.
- The Lobby is the
Town Common, where people have the least in common. So exercise restraint and
patience!
- The Rooms List
covers some common general interests or attitudes,
and
special purpose rooms, so if that is what you and other chatters are
into, go there, and others may follow.
- Private Messages
are for quick exchange of private or side-conversation information,
like an e-mail address, interesting web site address, or company phone
number.
- Private Discussion of
personal, perhaps embarrassing physical or other issues can be taken to
a special-purpose room such as the WomenOnly, MenOnly, or OffTopic Room
- Other Topics simply
belong outside this chat. Dubious personal topics, commercial
activities, and proclivities such as media piracy
& warez,
cybersex, snakeoil miracle cures, etc. have no place in any public or
private room on PeopleWithMS. Please
take it out of
PeopleWithMS onto an instant messanger.
Transcripts
are maintained for the safety and security of our chatters, just like
any other
major chat site. They allow us to identify
the IP address and location of problem chatters, who
don't
might not belong. When someone reports
misbehavior
in chat, transcripts allow investigation and substantiation of the
accusation.
We don't want to throw anybody out. However, we
also don't want creeps harrassing chatters.
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Please Be Advised: Some recent visiting chatters have
held the firm opinion that since they live in a free country
they can go anywhere they want on the internet, and say anything
they want, in any chatroom. Regardless of disruption to other chatters in the room.
And are indignant when they can't immediately utter their
latest ill-formed thought. That idea doesn't hold when
someone yells ' Fire ' in a crowded theatre, and less so when the the
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The
Rooms List
| PWMS
Main Chat Room
aka
" The Lobby
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This a main chat room for all
chatters. The best place to start at any time of the day or night. Some
stay in here always.
    But now you can head off to another
room, the choices are below.     
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| CoffeeHouse
( rated PG )
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Grab some friends, have a
latte! Or kick back with a Cappuccino.
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| Lounge
( rated R )
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Bring your friends in here when
the off-color jokes,
rowdy
discussions, or other topics start offending delicate
sensibilities in other
rooms. ! If
discussion goes XXX, get out of chat and onto IM, or book a hotel.
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| No Graphics
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This
is the place to hang out if your eyes just can't deal with fast-moving
chat text and flashing graphics.
Please turn off Avatars and Emoticons to eliminate flashing and
conserve display space.
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Special
Rooms
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Special Rooms
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| Newly Diagnosed
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RA's, Hosts, or any concerned
chatter should suggest newly diagnosed chatters head into this quieter,
special purpose room. There
should be no casual or off topic
discussions here => the focus is on the questions, concerns, and
fears of that new person.
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| Trivia & Games
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Organized Triva and Games are held 2
nights a week. However, you can organize games anytime you
want. Or leave a trivia question and play tag.
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| Women Only
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This room is only for Women! It can
be used anytime at all. We do have Women's Night Wednesday
8PM EST |
| Men's Only
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This room is only for Men! It can
be used anytime at all. We do have Men's Night Wednesday 8PM
EST |
| Off-Topic
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The room for discussions of limited
interest subjects. Computer repair. Pasta
farming. Furniture Refinishing
Techniques.
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| BikerBar
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HarleyVickie had the idea, and we
made it a reality. Now it's up to you to keep the room filled
with lively discussions of whatever seems
appropriate. |
| PetShop
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Join
PetsRUs6 in the PetShop on
Saturdays nights for discussion about all things pet. All Animals, Anytime !
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| Connections
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No one in chat, or the room you are
interested in chatting in ? Leave a message. They will catch
you later.
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| Staff Lounge
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A closed room for occasional staff
meetings. |
Who's
Chatting Where? Plus
Signs to the left of room names click-expand to show who's in there !
Who's
logging in and out ?
Regular
users should only see those logging into and out of a particular
room. RAs
see all entry-exit so they can greet newcomers.
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Chat
Star

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.bette42

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I AM
BETTE. I WAS DIAGNOSED @ 38 AND AM NOW 46. I HAD WHAT
I BELIEVE MY FIRST ATTACK @36 BUT THEY BASICALLY
THOUGHT IT WAS JUST A VERY BAD MIGRAINE AT THE MASS
GENERAL IN BOSTON. I WAS EXTREMELY TIRED AND FAINTED.
WHILE THERE I HAD THE FIRST OF MANY MRI'S . THAT FIRST
ONE SAID ?MS NOTHING WAS SAID TO ME ABOUT ?MS I MOVED
ON AND JUST KEPT WORKING MY 60-70 HOURS WEEKS. I WAS A
SINGLE MOM OF 2 SMALL GIRLS SO I HAD NO CHOICE BUT TO
WORK THAT MANY HOURS. IRONICALLY I WAS A RN WHO WORKED
WITH MS PATIENTS. I THOUGHT I KNEW EVERYTHING ABOUT MS
THERE WAS TO KNOW!!!! ARROGANT HUH?
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Coordinator
of Room Administrators
JolyRox is
coordinating all Room Administrators Please contact her with any
problems. She may make some suggestions about how to be a more
effective Room Administrator. Work with her she has some very good
ideas. We need Team work! She will help with anything she can when it
comes to helping others in chat.
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Or contact us at PWMS@PeopleWithMS.com
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Chat Coordinator!
Norma
is coordinating all chats.
Please contact
her for any changes. All you have to do is look at the schedule for and
find a place that
fits when hosting is good for you. If somebody is
already hosting
then, pop in to support them, and let them know you'll back-up, or
buddy host
with them. Just let her know what you
choose! Norma's email is NORMAJJOHNSTON@SBCGLOBAL.NET
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Chat
Hosting Schedule
The Chat Schedule breaks things down by day,
and show
the equivalent times in different time zones. Hopefully this
will make it
a bit clearer how an Eastern Standard Time relates to your personal
timezone or
country.
Reading the schedule is easy:
Just click on the day of the week to jump down. and then look
down from your local time zone on top
to the time you are interested in => bold times are when hosts
have volunteered to be present.
Knowing someone is available to provide support at dependable, specific
local
times makes a chat more successful.
Please, if you go in chat and
a host does not answer you right away, please wait, Our hosts
do a 2 hours stretch and need
bathroom time and coffee time. So if they're away right at
the sec you
arrive, be patient, they will come back.
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is always the final word on who's hosting,
when ! |
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