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March 20, 2010

PeopleWithMS - Singles Night

Sunday Night is Singles Night


Looking for Love in all the wrong places ?  Perhaps you should check into the ' Singles Only " room for Singles Chat on Sunday Nights at 8pm EST. 
Chaperoned by JenJen74 & Graham

N.B. - Those found to be married or otherwise committed,  complicated, or just plain confused will be summarily tossed back upon the merciless denizens of the Main Chat Room.

PWMS Chat Update

Chat Star


My name is Graham. I live North Carolina. I am 34 and I was diagnosed with MS 11 years ago.  I have used it all; cane, walker, manual wheelchair, and now a power chair. I always say, I have MS, but MS doesn't have me!  ( more  )


Coordinators of Room Administrators

Aileen & Bette42 are coordinating all Room Administrators Please contact them with any problems. They may make some suggestions about how to be a more effective Room Administrator. Work with them they have some very good ideas. We need Team work! They will help with anything she can when it comes to helping others in chat.  


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Chat Host Coordinator's!

Norma & JenJen74 are coordinating chats.  Please contact them for any changes. All you have to do is look at the schedule for and find a place that fits  when hosting is good for you.  If somebody is already hosting then, pop in to support them, and let them know you'll back-up, or buddy host with them.  Just let one of them know what choose! 

Norma                 JenJen74 





Chat Hosting Schedule                                                                                                      

The Chat Schedule breaks things down by day, and show the equivalent times in different time zones.  Hopefully this will make it a bit clearer how an Eastern Standard Time relates to your personal timezone or country.    

Reading the schedule is easy: Just click on the day of the week to jump down.  and then look down from your local time zone on top to the time you are interested in => bold times are when hosts have volunteered to be present.  

Knowing someone is available to provide support at dependable, specific local times makes a chat more successful.  

Please, if you go in chat and a host does not answer you right away, please wait,  Our hosts do a 2 hours stretch and need bathroom time and coffee time.  So if they're away right at the sec you arrive, be patient, they will come back.

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Take 20 Seconds when departing chat to allow for goodbyes, any last minute questions, whatever . . .    

Monday Night is now ............

' Herbie's Happy Hour! ' 


' Herbie's Happy Hour! ' 


Bring a joke.  Grab a complementary drink from the Lounge.  C'mon in and relax.   Start your week with a little fun! Join Herbie & Bette42 in the Lounge on Monday Nights.
Open Bar, Free hors d'oeuvres . . . 8:00 - 9:00 EDT



Tuesday & Thursday Night Trivia in the PeopleWithMS Chat

Join the fun.  Easy Multiple Choice and True/False and not-so easy puzzlers on a wide range of topics.

Tuesdays & Thursdays 8 to 9 pm Eastern

Want to volunteer
as our woman's night host ?

Contact Deb

This could be you !

 Wednesday Woman's Night


Wednesday's we have Woman's chat in our WOMAN'S ROOM !

Bring a Topic! Or not.  Some weeks we have a guest speaker!

We do this for one hour from 8PM till 9PM  EST. If anyone wants to stay in the woman's room for longer,   feel free to stay. We have had such a great time it seems for some it's not long enough.  Then we rejoin in the main chat room as always.

Please let us welcome you as our new Woman's Night Host

And remember:  Any one can use these rooms at anytime.

Friday Night Music Trivia





Friday nights at  8PM - 9PM

Join Linda for a fun filled Hour of Music Trivia !


Our objective is to provide an informal, supportive site for people seeking on-line information about Multiple Sclerosis.  We aren't doctors, we aren't experts.  We just live it everyday.  We formed this site to share what we have learned, provide a focal point for exchange of information,  and give back to the community. 

Support is a very big word when it comes to MS.  Doctors can only tell you so much during an office visit.  Leaving unanswered questions, concerns and issues.  People with any disease can often learn best from each other.  To this end we provide a chat forum to share information and suggestions, posting of the latest news, and links to authoritative sources of information. 

There are many informative sites out there.  Visit them all!  You can never have enough information.  We do not intend to compete with any other sites Like coffee shops, each has it's own unique atmosphere and clientele.  There can never be enough of them.  

Our chat is open for anything that has to do with MS. Some topics are not pleasant. But need to be talked about. If you have a problem, no matter what it is, chances are there is someone in chat that can help you. The one thing that PWMS will not accept is being laughed at for any MS problem. We expect all chatters to be considerate of others. 

We have appointed Aileen & Bette42 as the RA Coordinators. Our current list of room administrators is: Aileen, Bette42,  Norma, Soporific,  JenJen74, Herbie,  and JackIL.  All host at scheduled times and frequently chat off-hosting hours as well.  They can help you if you need help. 


Chat Etiquette Reminder

Please make a point to welcome any new chatter that comes in our room. Introduce yourself.  Don't just be a bump on a log!  Ask if there is anything special they want to ask about, know about.  Don't ignore the new chatter.  Offer them coffee and a muffin.  Make them feel at home.  Don't keep chattering about peripheral MS stuff, or off-topic stuff, and ignore a newcomer.

Also keep in mind that Laws and Health Care options also vary widely both within countries and across the globe.  So be sensitive to the personal situations and tribulations chatters face.  Don't rub in how great things are for you. 

Between the laughs, a serious note:  We are a support chat. With that said, we can only help by listening; none of us are professionals. In our years of chatting with MSers online, one of the most common problems is depression.  This is a very serious problem. We do feel sometimes just being a good friend, listening, and kidding around can help. And sometimes is just the right thing to turn the a bad mood around.  But when things just don't appear to be getting any better in a reasonable amount of time, and chat is just a temporary fix, it is time to get professional help. Many times it's as simple as a medication change.  Or something else.

So, About Our Chat:  We try to maintain a positive, upbeat attitude.  We may have MS, but MS doesn't have us.  It's not the focal point of our existence, it's just one part.  So if there's a problem, no need to moan and groan - it just needs solving.  Go over it, around it, blow it up, or joke about it.  We won't ignore somebody's problem because it's gross, unseemly, or offends somebody else's sensibilities.  We'll help figure out a solution.  If somebody want's to wallow in their problem, we're not going to be too sympathetic.  

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