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November 3, 2007

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PeopleWithMS Newsletter 08-19-07 PWMS Chat Update: 

We have 2 new room administrators, LFShaw and JolyRox. Please welcome them! We would like to ask that if a chatter wants to vent, and really needs some ears to listen, please ask then if they would like to join you and anyone else who would like to listen in another room. Nothing like learning some colloquial new expressions ! It's hard when we are all in the middle of laughing and having a great time to have someone come in and brings the whole room down. We need to laugh.  But we all need to listen, too. Please - A reminder to all chatters. No one gets to play Doctor.  Share what has happened to you, but always say everyone is different. So it always ends up being;  "Do what you and your Doctor decide is best."   

We have had lots of newer chatters drift off for long times. Some don't come back for hours, some get lost on other Instant Messengers, some multi-task into a parallel universe, and some just don't know how to, or forget to, log off.  Please, if you need to be away more than 15 minutes, log out using the Door with the 'Invisible Green ' Arrow, or the big ' X ' in the top right corner of the Chat Window.  and come back when you can chat.

We have asked chatters to host in the past. And we're again asking if anyone would like to help us out in hosting.  The best way for everyone concerned seems to be 2 hosts or RA's at a time. One can always be ready to help a newbie out, and say hi. Another to act as a RingMaster, directing people to the new rooms we have constructed to reduce the confusion.  There are now 10 rooms - please use them !  Just say "Come join me in the whatever room.   The main room sure gets busy, we all know that.  The CoffeeHouse can be a real sanctuary just down the hall from the Main Chatroom Lobby.

Come on if you spent more than 6 hours a week in chat give back donate 2 hours to hosting  greet chatters. We are a team and by helping it makes you a part of the team. and makes our chat better for all. 

 


What's With All The Rooms ?

PWMS

Main Chat Room

aka " The Lobby "

This a main chat room for all chatters. The best place to start at any time of the day or night. Some stay in here always. 

But now you can head off to another room, the choices are below.

CoffeeHouse

Grab some friends, have a latte!  No ?   OK, kick back with a Cappuccino.

Lounge The place for racy jokes, rowdy discussions, and topics which might offend sensitivities in other rooms. Bring friends in here!
No Graphics

This is the place to hang out if your eyes just can't deal with fast-moving chat text and flashing graphics. Please turn off Avatars and Emoticons to eliminate flashing and conserve display space.


Special Rooms 


Special Rooms 

Newly Diagnosed RA's, Hosts, or any concerned chatter should suggest newly diagnosed chatters head into this quieter, special purpose room.  There should be no casual or off topic discussions here => the focus is on the questions, concerns, and fears of that new person. 
Trivia

Organized Triva and Games are held 3 nights a week. However, you can organize games anytime you want.  Or leave a trivia question and play tag.

Women Only This room is only for Women! It can be used anytime at all. We do have Women's Night  Wednesday 8PM EST
Men's Only This room is only for Men! It can be used anytime at all. We do have Men's Night  Wednesday 8PM EST
Off-Topic

The room for discussions of limited interest subjects.  Computer or other Internet Troubles.  Rebuilding 57 Buick carbs.   Window Treatments.  Care and Feeding of Dust Bunnies.

Connections

No one in chat, or the room you are interested in chatting in ?  Leave a message. They will catch you later.

Staff Lounge A closed room for occasional staff meetings.
 

Who's Chatting Where?  Plus Signs to the left of room names click-expand to show who's in there !

Who's logging in and out ?  Regular users should only see those logging into and out of a particular room.  RAs see all  entry-exit so they can greet newcomers.


 This Week's ChatStar 

 

LFShaw

 

 

I'm Lynne Frances Shaw, chat name LFShaw. I was diagnosed in July of 2005. My worst attacks were after the birth of my second child. I could not walk without holding on to anything in reach and I lost vision in my right eye. An MRI was ordered and there was my companion for life....Multiple Sclerosis. I finally got the explanations for all the ill health. I was shocked, scared, but most of all relieved to finally know what was going on with my body. Fortunately all of my "quirks" seem to remit.  (more )

Chat Coordinator!

Norma is coordinating all chats.  Please contact her for any changes. All you have to do is look at the schedule for and find a place that fits  when hosting is good for you.  If somebody is already hosting then, pop in to support them, and let them know you'll back-up, or buddy host with them.  Just let her know what you choose! Norma's email is NORMAJJOHNSTON@SBCGLOBAL.NET  

Or contact us at PWMS@PeopleWithMS.com  if you'd like to host on a regular basis.


Chat Hosting Schedule                                                                                                      

The Chat Schedule breaks things down by day, and show the equivalent times in different time zones.  Hopefully this will make it a bit clearer how an Eastern Standard Time relates to your personal timezone or country.    

Reading the schedule is easy: Just click on the day of the week to jump down.  and then look down from your local time zone on top to the time you are interested in => bold times are when hosts have volunteered to be present.  

Knowing someone is available to provide support at dependable, specific local times makes a chat more successful.  

Please, if you go in chat and a host does not answer you right away, please wait,  Our hosts do a 2 hours stretch and need bathroom time and coffee time.  So if they're away right at the sec you arrive, be patient, they will come back.

Click Here to jump to the full Chat Schedule Page  
It is always the final word on who's hosting, when ! 

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Stories

PeopleWithMS - Stories and Pictures
Nellie

I remember sitting on my bed, when the phone rang. I was expecting this call. The voice on the other end, informed me that I was 99% diagnosed with MS. I asked him what was that 1% going to do for me? He found that a bit humorous, and said, ok, your diagnosed is 100%, you have MS. These are words that still echo in my head after three years. I was Dx'd June 04

Even before that day I had started looking for people that shared my systems, hoping I would find someone that would tell me that it wasn't anything serious, I was going to be ok. Found too many people with my first system, Optical Neuritis. Commonly found in people with MS. I was catapulted into a world, I knew nothing about, I became scared. Oddly enough those people that I had reached out in MS chat room, and MS boards, were the ones that reached out to me. This is where I found my good friend Audrey. Like me, she didn't know what was going on. We were diagnoses weeks apart. We communicated often, and talked about mostly everything about our fears of the unknown. I must admit, she was stronger than I was, knowing something about MS. I on the other hand knew Nothing, only that Montel Williams was afflicted with this disease.  (more )

Petsrus

story to follow . . . (more )
Suzibar4206

story to follow . . . (more )
wcgirl

Hi I am Diane a.k.a. wcgirl. I am 40 yrs. young live in NJ & have SPMS that has paralyzed my body, but not my life.

I had lots of symptoms as a child & saw lots of specialists in N.Y.C. but never told anything. My exacerbation in Ď88 paralyzed my left side just 6 months before my wedding. My Dr. assured me itwas safe to go ahead with my wedding plans, my spinal fluid was negative & M.R.I. was thought to be a stroke. I recovered to walking with a straight cane in 6 months, it was a huge challenge but I honestly believe that ďIf God brings you to it, God will bring you through it.Ē I got married to my high school sweetheart in í89. In í93 I hadan exacerbation thatparalyzed my right side.

My husband left in Ď95 after my Dx. While I was still in rehab. This fact is of no importance to me, I included it just to let others know they arenít alone.  (more )

Diane

story to follow . . . (more )
JolyRox

HI EVERYBODY!!!! I'M JODIE aka JOLYROX, AND THE OTHERS IN THE PIX ARE MY HUBBY MIKE, AND OUR GIRL, ALEX. I WAS DX'D JULY 6TH AND STOPPED WORKING AS A NAIL TECH ON 7-9-04. I WAS DENIED THE FIRST TIME, BUT AFTER SEEING THE PSYCHOLOGIST FOR S.S., I PASSED. HAVING AN AUTOIMMUNE DISEASE WAS NOT REALLY NEW TO ME...MAYBE BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN DIABETIC SINCE I WAS 5 YEARS OLD, AND ANOTHER SHOT WOULDNT BE ANY BIG DEAL. I AM 39, AND NOT DOIN SO BAD. I'VE HAD RETINAL DETACHMENT IN MY RIGHT EYE, AND AN ARTERY BYPASS IN MY RIGHT LEG--BUT THE BEST KIND OF SURGERY I HAD WAS TO BRING MY BABY GIRL INTO THE WORLD. I LOVE ALL THE FRIENDS I HAVE MADE IN THE CHAT ROOMS, AND FEEL VERY FORTUNATE TO HAVE AS MANY AS I DO-- I JUST WANNA SAY "THANX" FOR ALL THE CONCERN AND COMPASSION I HAVE RECEIVED KNOWING SUCH A GROUP OF VERY UNDERSTANDING AND WONDERFUL PEOPLE !! WE HAVE CERTAINLY FOUND THE PLACE WHERE WE ARE MEANT TO BE!!   Jodie  (more )
  shimmie

Iím Shelly, 11/11/63, single, no kids. I have 3 brothers, 1 sister (youngest bro & sis are twins), 3 nieces and 3 nephews. I live in Springfield, IL. Iíve also lived in southern Illinois (Mt Vernon & Centralia), Memphis, TN, and Marathon, Florida Keys, FL. Knowing what I know now, I believe I couldíve been diagnosed with MS 15 years ago, but since I didnít know anything about it, I just Ďdealt with it.í It started with tingling in my left arm, to the point where I couldnít raise my arm independently, spreading down the left side of my body and I began to Ďdragí my leg. I ended up going to a chiropractor, and after 6-8 weeks, things finally got Ďback to normal.í (I canít recall ever not having what I now know to be symptoms of MS, specifically LíHermitteís Sign).  (lots more )
Ted

story to follow . . . (more )
Waterfalls2

story to follow . . . (more )

This could be you*

Just send your name, story, and photo along to: PWMS@PeopleWithMS.com

People like to read other stories about MS and dealing with the everyday life with MS.  Everyone's M.S. is different and everyone's story is different. Get to know the chatters we chat with. 

Stories and Picture's 

 
 

PWMS  Welcomes!   

Please, we have issued an All Points Bulletin for any new chatters !   Come in, ask them to send us their e-mail addresses at PWMS@PeopleWithMS.com ; it is the only way we can send them out our weekly newsletter.  Also, let them know about your stories and pictures, and perhaps ask if they'd like to submit one.! A great way to get instant recognition, by appearing in the newsletter.  Most of us love to know more about each other and see who we chat with. When no one is here and a new MSER comes in and reads our stories and poems it helps to read and see how MSers deal with life.

 Anyone who wants to add Pictures or update their story, please do so.

   

HeadsUp !

PeopleWithMS - Heads Up ! ! !
Just a reminder as you Doctor if you need a Flu shot!

More important ask if you need a pneumonia shot!

Please Join the posting and information in Marlene's Message board!

"Marlene's Discussion Board". Please check it out, and help  her out by contributing any posts you would like to share. Look for her logo on our Home page! Check out the world map let's see who you do live close to! World Map

We are starting to talk about our May 2008 Get Together. 

It is still too early to make any solid plans, but keep it in mind.

 

HELP!

We will be opening 3 new "Groups" branch websites on MSN, Yahoo, and Google shortly.  These will help us reach some people who are more familiar with those particular mini-environments.  If anyone has a particular skill or interest in being the manager of one of the branch Group-sites, please let us know. It is a big job and needs to be watched daily.We have lots of ideas but need some help  - as always LOL!!   There will not be any chats on these sites, only information.

 

 

"I Dropped My Chicken Soup:

Stories about Multiple Sclerosis"

 

I know it's been a long time coming, but after 2 years "I Dropped My Chicken Soup: Stories about Multiple Sclerosis" is available for sale.

You can order the book directly from the publisher Bookstand Publishing. The cost of the book will be $18.95 + shipping. The website is:

 http://www.bookstandpublishing.com/m/rebekahuggins/

OR

On October 22nd the book will be available through me at a cost of $15 and that will include shipping costs. I will accept money orders or cashier's checks or paypal. Please contact me for the address to send cashier's check or money orders. The e-mail adress for paypal is msstoriesofhope@yahoo.com

PLEASE DO NOT SEND MONEY UNTIL OCTOBER 22nd. I AM NOT TAKING PRE ORDERS. However the book can be bought as of now through the publisher

If your story is in the book please contact me before ordering a book.

Rebeka
www.myspace.com/msstories

Crafts

PeopleWithMS - Crafts

CRAFTERS

Everyone will have a place to post there crafts so others can see them. This link will stay on our web site and also can be found on our links page. Click yarn ball for fall music, crafts, and more!

Click here for our chatters Craft's and more 

 

Judy is selling her dish cloths. They are made of cotton and she's selling them for $2.00 per towel plus shipping. It's a great deal! They last a real long time and make great gifts!! 

Email Judy for orders or questions judydionne@verizon.net

 

Busy Bees Nursery...Where Dreams Come True 

Hello. My name is Audrey and I am the artist here at Busy Bees Nursery. I have been creating these precious reborn babies for about 2 years, and I truly have a love for what I do. It is very rewarding, and I enjoy making people happy with my Reborn Babies! It is such a joy to create and reborn each baby, as they seem to develop their very own personalities and characteristics.

I am proud to say I am a Award 

Winner in RebornArtistry.com CONTACT ME: Audbug2410@aol.com.  

BusyBeesNursery...Where Dreams Come True:

 To post crafts EMAIL deb@durgin.net

Tuesday Game Night

PeopleWithMS - Women's & Men's Chat Night

The 3 word game!

Shimmie

Will be our host!

Tuesday night 8PM EST 

5PM PST

7PM CST

Welcome to our Tuesday night Game night we are starting with the three word game this week! We will take it one week at a time. The three word game sounds like fun. Shimmie has been nice enough to host it. Let's give it another try this week only lets answer one at a time!

Womens & Mens Nights

PeopleWithMS - Women's & Men's Chat Night

 Woman's night & Men's night! 

Wednesday's we have Woman's chat in our WOMAN'S ROOM! AT the same time we have Men's chat in the MEN'S ROOM. We do this for one hour from 8PM till 9PM  EST. If anyone wants to stay in the woman's room for another hour feel free to stay. We have had such a great time its seems for some its not long enough.  Then we join in the main chat room as always. Sue was nice enough to say she would host it. I believe Red said ok he would host the men's chat. What's the topic? We have been picking a topic as we go along. It's been a blast and has made us women really bond. Please join us I think it's the best night of the week!  Donny Doormat is there manning the doorway, ready to greet you and guide you into the right room Any one can use this room anytime it is a open room.

Trivia

PeopleWithMS - Trivia Night

Trivia Night in the PeopleWithMS Chat

Thursdays

8 pm EST

7pm CST

5 pm PST 

  

 

 

 

Saturdays

8pm CST

9pm EST

6 pm PST

Marlene & Red  have are the hosts for our Thursday Night TrivialChat. 

Trivia Thursdays continues as the always wacky and entertaining Bring Yer Own Night   RED IS THE TRIVIA KING THIS WEEK !

Everyone brings 5 or more questions and answers, ready to copy and paste into chat. The questions need to be multiple choice or true or false   We'll take turns tossing out questions, round-robin.   

I found a great site http://www.funtrivia.com/ that among other things, has an Encyclopedia of Trivia. With a gazillion categories of questions to choose from. Marlene also found a great Trivia site http://www.123facts.com

WELCOME ALL    


Gerry & Shimmie & Scottie host our Saturday Night TriviaChat!

Trivia Saturdays, where the hosts ask the questions.

Shimmie Keeps score.

Sit back, relax.  It's Saturday night enjoy!

For the East Coast chatters, it's like a night out!

WELCOME ALL

(THE HOSTS WILL BE ASKING QUESTIONS AND GIVING THE ANSWER IN BOLD RED)

THE TOPIC IS ďEVENTS FROM 1995Ē

GOOD LUCK EVERYBODY & LET'S HAVE SOME FUN!!!!!! 

A point will be given for each correct answer, not only to who answers first, so take your time but DON'T TAKE TOO LONG!! At the end of the game, the person with the most points wins! (Hopefully this will make it 
fairer for those who have trouble reading or type slower than others.)

Recipes

PeopleWithMS - Recipes
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for Recipes

 

Check out all of the recipes on our web site that chatters have shared with us  
Click here for 

Healthy Eating 

Recipes

 

Please Email us with any recipes you would like to share with us PWMS@peoplewithms.com 

MARS BARS SQUARES

4 Mars Bars

1/2 cup of butter

3 cups of Rice Krispies

Melt the Mars Bars and butter together. Stir in the Rice Krispies. Put it into a 9 x 13" pan


TOPPING

1 cup of chocolate chips 

1/4 cup of butter

Melt these together, and spread over the top of the Rice Krispies mixture. Put in the fridge, and when cool, cut into squares.....share them with me...

Oh Deb this is way to easy ! Thank you again.

 

Scalloped Sausage and Potatoes

  • 1 pound bulk pork sausage

  • 4 cups thinly sliced potatoes

  • 1/4 teaspoon salt

  • 1 cup shredded sharp American

  • cheese (4ounces)

  • 1 1/2 cups milk

In skillet crumble sausage and brown it lightly; drain thoroughly. Place half of the sliced potatoes in a quart casserole. Combine flour and salt. Sprinkle half of the cheese. Repeat layers with remaining potatoes. flour mixture. sausage, and cheese. Pour milk over all. 50 to 60 minutes. Uncover and bake 10 minutes more. Makes 4 to 6 servings.

James has shared this recipe with us.

BLUEBERRY NUT BREAD 

1 pint blueberries, rinsed but not dried
3 cups plus 3 tablespoons whole wheat flour, divided
2 cups sugar
1 cup chopped pecans
1 cup vegetable oil
1/2 cup water
4 eggs
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1 teaspoon salt

1. Preheat the oven to 350F. Coat two 9"x5" loaf pans with nonstick cooking spray.

2. In a medium bowl, combine the damp blueberries and 3 tablespoons flour; toss to coat evenly.

3. In a large bowl, combine the remaining ingredients; mix well. Carefully stir in the coated blueberries, then spoon the mixture into the loaf pans.

4. Bake for 55 to 60 minutes, or until a wooden toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean. Allow to cool slightly, then remove to a wire rack to cool completely. Serve, or cover until ready to serve.

This looks yummy ! Thanks Deb!

Strawberry Bread 

1 1/2 cup fresh strawberries, sliced
1/3 cup of milk
2 eggs, beaten
1/2 tsp. vanilla
1/2 cup vegetable oil
1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1/2 tsp. baking soda
1/2 tsp. baking powder
1/4 tsp. salt
1 1/2 tsp. cinnamon
1 cup sugar
1/2 cup chopped walnuts

Preheat oven to 350įF. In a large mixing bowl, combine strawberries, milk, eggs, vanilla and oil and set aside. In a medium mixing bowl, sift together flour, baking soda, baking powder, salt cinnamon and sugar. Add dry ingredients and walnuts to strawberry mixture and stir well. Pour batter into a greased and floured 9"x5"x3" loaf pan. Bake 50-60 minutes or until toothpick inserted in centre of loaf comes out clean.

This cuts best when chilled......you can heat slices in the microwave and serve with butter....or whipped cream cheese.

Thank you Deb !

 

LEMON BUNDT CAKE

1 pkg. Duncan Hines Lemon Cake Mix ( Moist Deluxe Lemon Supreme)
1 small pkg. Jello instant lemon pudding mix ( 4 serving size)
4 eggs
3/4 cup vegetable oil
3/4 cup water

Blend all ingredients together, and beat for 5 minutes at high speed

Butter and flour the bundt pan

Oven 350----Bake for 50 minutes

Remove from pan while still hot

Put glaze on cake while hot.

Glaze
11/4 cup of icing sugar
Finely grate zest of one large lemon, and add that and the juice from the
lemon to the sugar. 

Pour glaze over cake.....poke holes in cake with a chopstick or fork if you want.
Enjoy!

Thank you Deb.

Poems

PeopleWithMS - Poems
Tae A Computer. (With a Scottish accent)


Monitor, keyboard and sleekit moose,
Sits so quiet there , in the hoose,
Your beige plastic box conceals the bits,
That makes ye run, in starts an fits.


Your power button attracts ma finger,
You donít think twice, ye never linger,
Your cooling fan bursts into life,
But will ye boot , or gie us strife?.


The window splash screens in ma face,
It disappears, then in its place,
A fatal error Örun oot o ram,
Ye tear yir hair, an scream oot DAM.


Windows system failed to load,
Iíll hae tae start it, in safe mode,
Then find the problem an sort it oot,
Control alt delete, it should now reboot.


At last yir back and in control,
The CPU, is on a roll,
There's time to load a game or two,
But really, I've got work to do.


Like bring the books back up to date,
Work on, another estimate,
But playing games is much more fun,
Iíll just carry on here, until Iíve won


I think Iíll try an surf the net,
An look up, all that stuff you get,
So I dialled my server to get logged on,
But the modemís no workiní, summits wrong.


The whole dam systemís runniní slow,
It's caught a virus, donít you know,
Some might say itís just a cold,
But itís oor computer, itís far too old.


I long for one thatís neat an sleek,
This one Iíve got, is obsolete,
Itís had a lot of use from me,
But I need one now, with a USB.


1 terabyte bite of DD ram,
A cordless mouse, for in ma hand,
An AMD or Pentium quad core,
Accelerated graphics card, who needs more,


Eighty terabits of perpendicular hard drive space,
HD Blue ray DVD re writer, in pride of place,
A flat panel widescreen would be discrete,
And surround sound speakers, really neat.


Wireless broad band , a digital camera
Donít forget the flat bed scanner.
Photo printer, new software.
Can a wallet stand this ware N tare.


And this XP it's lost it's style
Mind you It's been around a while,
So It's time to try it's new wee sister,
Now you must of heard of Windows Vista.


But wait a minute, hear what I say
An even newer system is on it's way
Due for release in 2010
So Bill can fleece us all again


Now I'm not one to lie to you,
Bills working now on something new,
So I'm prepared to bet a tenner
Bills next Window system, Code nameÖÖ Vienna


The list of things is never endin',
Our mate Bill Gates just keeps us spendin'
All our bucks & all oor cash
On systems that are bound to crash.


A computer should be a real god send
Not here to drive us roond the bend.
So I'll leave you to ponder some sound advice,
Just switch it offÖÖand get a life.

C Wilkie 2007.
 Listen to that so soft and sweet chirpin croaking its beautiful Watch the
pebbles ripple watch the budding flower bloom our worlds peace lets find it Grandma s cookies
a babies bath in the sink All tucked in witha kiss good night full moons glow breezes blowin
off the water just holdin hands her blues eyes thats sincere gentle soul savoiring this
peaceful moment can you feel it

[statrekdon] 

 Listen to your heart, life's best moments, follow its advice you've gotten to know
each other, comfortable, easy to be around yes he's crazy dreamin, smiling, about the next
time you'll be together tricky though, yes you've been here before, yesterdays s

statrekdon] 

When your destination is uncertain The journey might be frightening ,confusing
and arduous So its time step back then look ahead excited and determined The road that leads
toward the fulfillment of your dreams lies ahead Step ahead roll forward remember

[statrekdon] 


WORDS of WISDOM
A Birth Certificate shows that we were born;


A Death Certificate shows that we died;
Pictures show that we lived! 


Have a seat . . . Relax . . . And read this slowly. 

**********************************

 


I believe - That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do. 

I believe - That we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change. 

I believe - That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. 

I believe - That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love. 

I believe - That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. 

I believe - That it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be. 

I believe - That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them. 

I believe - That you can keep going long after you think you can't. 

I believe - That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. 

I believe - That either you control your attitude or it controls you. 

I believe - That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. 

I believe - That money is a lousy way of keeping score. 

I believe - That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time. 

I believe - That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up. 

I believe - That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel. 

I believe - That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated. 

I believe - That it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself. 

I believe - That no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief. 

I believe - That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become. 

I believe - That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life Forever. 

I believe - Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. 

I believe - That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you. 

I believe - That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help. 

I believe - That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being. 

I believe - That the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon. 

I believe - That you should send this to all of the people that you believe in. I just did.

The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have. ,

  Thank You Ralph Jumps                                                                        

Check it out on our inspirational Poetry Pages

Please Email us with any poems you would like to share with us PWMS@peoplewithms.com

Birthdays

PeopleWithMS - Birthdays
 

NEW BIRTHDAY PAGE 

 CLICK HERE CLICK HERE   

Upcoming Birthday:  

PeopleWithMS - Birthdays, Anniversaries, Etc.

 If anyone wants to host a chat Birthday Party, we provide the room, we clean up! We will send out invitations. We all have birthdays, some have Anniversary's.  Help make a friend feel very important. We are all important in chat! Throw a surprise party for a chat buddy. Thank your best friend for being there for you! He or she deserves a party!

Book a room and tables for your ' Surprise ' Birthday party while there's still time by e-mailing
PWMS@peoplewithms.com

 

 

Famous People

PeopleWithMS - Famous People
 
FAMOUS PEOPLE WITH MS PAGE   

We're making up a new Famous People Page and we need your input . . . .

So far, we have some semi-famous people.  Not really a lot, and not really terrifically famous.  Kind of a sad excuse for a list.  You're sure to know the name of one or more people that are way more famous.  Send us the name of any well known person with MS, and perhaps a one liner about them: PWMS@PeopleWithMS.com

 CLICK HEREFAMOUS  

 

 

General Information

PeopleWithMS Newsletter 08-19-07

OUR MISSION

Our objective is to provide an informal, supportive site for people seeking on-line information about  Multiple Sclerosis.  We aren't doctors, we aren't experts.  We just live it everyday.  We formed this site to share what we have learned, provide a focal point for exchange of information,  and give back to the community. 

Support is a very big word when it comes to MS.  Doctors can only tell you so much during an office visit.  Leaving unanswered questions, concerns and issues.  People with any disease can often learn best from each other.  To this end we provide a chat forum to share information and suggestions, posting of the latest news, and links to authoritative sources of information. 

There are many informative sites out there.  Visit them all!  You can never have enough information.  We do not intend to compete with any other sites Like coffee shops, each has it's own unique atmosphere and clientele.  There can never be enough of them.  

Our chat is open for anything that has to do with MS. Some topics are not pleasant. But need to be talked about. If you have a problem, no matter what it is, chances are there is someone in chat that can help you. The one thing that PWMS will not accept is being laughed at for any MS problem. We expect all chatters to be considerate of others. 

We have appointed Norma, Marlene,LF Shaw  Debby, MS_Kitty, Sae What, Linda-NV, JackIL, and Spikers  Marineswife, Shimmie, Joly. room administrators. They have been using the chat.  They can help you if you need help. 


 

Chat Etiquette Reminder

Please make a point to welcome any new chatter that comes in our room. Introduce yourself.  Ask if there is anything special they want to ask about, know about.  Don't ignore the new chatter.  Offer them coffee and a muffin.  Make them feel at home.  Don't keep chattering about peripheral MS stuff with others, or off-topic stuff.

Just keep in mind the one rule we have:  nobody gets to play Doctor in chat.  What we mean by that is;  don't go diagnosing chatters ailments or recommending medications.  Share your experiences, and what any of the drugs have done for you.  Don't encourage the idea that any medication is a miracle cure. Or dismiss any, or all, medicines as doing nothing.   Even the well known medications have a wide range of effectiveness.  The effectiveness of non-traditional and alternative medicines is even less certain.  So talk about your experiences, factual studies and medical trials.  Offer your opinions with care, and never recommend.  Third hand medical testimonials from a friend of your auto mechanic's wife aren't welcome, unless they are really funny.

Also keep in mind that Laws and Health Care options also vary widely both within countries and across the globe.  So be sensitive to the personal situations and tribulations chatters face.  Don't rub in how great things are for you. 

Between the laughs, a serious note:  We are a support chat. With that said, we can only help by listening; none of us are professionals. In our years of chatting with MSers online, one of the most common problems is depression.  This is a very serious problem. We do feel sometimes just being a good friend, listening, and kidding around can help. And sometimes is just the right thing to turn the a bad mood around.  But when things just don't appear to be getting any better in a reasonable amount of time, and chat is just a temporary fix, it is time to get professional help. Many times it's as simple as a medication change.  Or something else.

I have not told many, but when my daughter was dx'd 12 years ago, I had to learn as much as I could. I wanted to know what is the worst case scenario, and what is the best with MS.  What courses could it take? How likely one versus the other? I wanted no more surprises.  Having my one and only daughter dx'd with MS was enough of a surprise. I went to Gaylord Rehab for a very long seminar on MS. It was the mental problems that really got most in a lot of troubles, because they were not ever taken seriously. I have seen this many times in my years online.  If you see someone in chat that seems headed down this road, try to cheer them up, focus on the positive, and give them some suggestions. If they come back just as bad off, try again.  If they keep coming back, let them know that they might be in need of some support beyond what any of us can provide in chat.  

So, About Our Chat:  We try to maintain a positive, upbeat attitude.  We may have MS, but MS doesn't have us.  It's not the focal point of our existence, it's just one part.  So if there's a problem, no need to moan and groan - it just needs solving.  Go over it, around it, blow it up, or joke about it.  We won't ignore somebody's problem because it's gross, unseemly, or offends somebody else's sensibilities.  We'll help figure out a solution.  If somebody want's to wallow in their problem, we're not going to be too sympathetic.  

Don't feel bad if you visit our chat and don't like things:  The folks in it, what's talked about, the limited avatars and emoticons, the sounds, or anything else.  We don't have room for every MSer in the universe, and don't claim to cater to every taste.  If you want something different,  we encourage you to search out another chat room.  There are chats for those that want to wallow in pity, moan and groan. sing songs on a voice chats, fantasy-date, or do whatever comes after that on web cam chats. If you don't find what you need, or think you can do better, we encourage you to go buy your own web server, start your own website, and run your own chat to cater to that unmet need.  Please let us know about your site and chat, so we can direct any like-minded folks your way.


If anyone has anything they think ought to be added to the weekly news letter, please email me at deb@durgin.net.

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